I have someone at home: Is your marriage de facto or de jure?

A story is told of a lawyer who asked a client if they were married to determine whether spousal consent was needed. The client’s response was, “I have someone at home.” This answer highlights a common uncertainty about whether simply cohabiting and sharing a life qualifies as a marriage under the law. It is a distinction that carries significant consequences, as it can mean the difference between legal recognition and a relationship left in legal limbo.

12 Sep 2024 5 min read Real Estate Law Alert Article

At a glance

  • The recent High Court ruling in JTO v AP (Appeal E128 of 2022) [2024] KEHC 10464 (KLR), delivered on 29 August 2024, has sparked widespread discussion about its far-reaching implications for spousal rights and property ownership. For more information about the ruling, click here.
  • The decision reinforces the registration requirements under the Marriage Act, 2014 (Act) and sheds light on the legal consequences for couples in unions that were valid and recognised by law prior to the commencement of the Act.
  • It also highlights the implications for real estate and property transactions that rely on spousal consent obtained from them.

In light of this uncertainty, the recent High Court ruling in JTO v AP (Appeal E128 of 2022) [2024] KEHC 10464 (KLR), delivered on 29 August 2024, has sparked widespread discussion for its far-reaching implications on spousal rights and property ownership. The decision firmly reinforced the registration requirements under the Marriage Act, 2014 (Act) and shed light on the legal consequences for couples in unions that were valid and recognised by law prior to the commencement of the Act, and the implications for real estate and property transactions that rely on spousal consent obtained from them.

De facto v de jure marriage

Before delving into the ruling, it is important to address the distinction between de facto and de jure marriages. A de facto marriage refers to a relationship where two individuals who live together consider themselves married, even though they have not formalised their union through legal channels such as registration or a religious ceremony. These marriages are real in fact but lack formal legal recognition.

On the other hand, a de jure marriage is one that has met all legal requirements, including registration. It is recognised by law, and the rights and obligations associated with the marriage are fully enforceable.

Provisions of the Marriage Act

The Act provides a clear framework for proving marriage through various means, including a certificate issued under Kenyan or relevant laws, a certified copy of such a certificate, or an entry in a marriage register maintained under these laws. Proof can also be provided through records from specific religious communities or entries in registers maintained by those communities. For marriages that took place in a public place of worship where registration was not required, proof may be established through an entry in the register of that place or a certified copy of it.

Customary marriages, in particular, must be registered within six months of their celebration or within three years for those contracted before the Act came into force, with an extension allowed until 2020.

Importantly, section 98(1) of the Act ensures that subsisting marriages valid under previous law remain valid under the current legal framework, even if registration has not yet occurred. The implication of this provision is that the commencement of the Act did not affect the substantive validity of a marriage that was valid at the time it was contracted. Therefore, it would mean that registration is intended to facilitate easier proof of the marriage for legal purposes, but failure to register does not negate the existence of the marriage.

Even so, section 12(e) of the Act is clear that a voluntary union of a man and a woman, whether in a monogamous or polygamous union, is voidable if there is a failure to register the marriage. In legal terms, a voidable contract is a valid agreement that can be either upheld or rejected at the option of one of the parties, unlike a void contract which is not legally enforceable from the outset.

Legitimacy of pre-existing marriages

In most legal systems, laws do not have retrospective effect, meaning they do not apply to events that occurred before the law came into force. Transitional provisions in the Act were designed to allow pre-existing marriages to remain valid, ensuring legal continuity. Some may argue that the legislative intent behind the transitional provisions of the Act was to create an administrative process for recognising existing marriages for legal purposes, without delegitimising them. There is no language in the Act explicitly stating that unregistered marriages within the given timeframe would be considered void or non-existent.

Marriages contracted under customary law or previous statutory laws were recognised before the Act’s commencement, and their validity remains intact. However, couples who fail to register their unions may face complications in asserting spousal rights, especially in contexts like property transactions.

Spousal consent

Spousal consent has now become a pivotal issue in property transactions, particularly where marriages are unregistered. If a marriage is not recognised because it has not been registered, a spouse may not be considered legally entitled to give or withhold consent, putting the transaction at risk.

As demonstrated in the court’s reasoning, customary marriages that were once valid but have since gone unregistered are particularly vulnerable to these legal challenges. In cases of inheritance or joint ownership, the absence of a registered marriage certificate could complicate or even jeopardize property rights.

Key legal points from the judgment

In JTO v AP, the appellant claimed to be in a Luo customary marriage that was unregistered. The court held that since the marriage had not been registered within the required period, the appellant could not prove the existence of marriage for purposes of divorce.

The legal interpretation was clear that while long-term cohabitation is a reality for many, the law requires formal registration for marriages to be recognised. The court further acknowledged the inequity of dismissing a union that spanned over 20 years of cohabitation, but nonetheless emphasised that legal compliance cannot be waived. Marriages that are unregistered may exist in fact, but they lack the legal foundation necessary for full recognition and protection under the law.

The way forward

The inclination to keep outsiders out of personal unions is understandable. Many believe that their marriage thrives best when free from external interference. However, in today’s legal environment, disregarding the Registrar of Marriages would be akin to submitting to a marriage that is tenuous at best, leaving it unanchored in the eyes of the law. Without legal recognition, your marriage remains fragile and unprepared to weather the eventualities that every relationship must face, whether through death, divorce or succession.

This is particularly poignant in polygamous unions, where failure to register may leave one spouse at a legal disadvantage compared to a co-wife whose marriage has secured the necessary legal status. The result would be potentially compromised rights and weakened legal standing.

Understanding the law is about safeguarding rights, not undermining a bond between spouses. By formalising your union, you are not just adhering to a bureaucratic process but rather securing your legal rights. The Registrar of Marriages is there to ensure your union stands the test of time legally. In an age where the law must work hand-in-hand with love, registering your marriage is one of the most significant steps you can take for your future.

Conversely, for those who can tolerate risk, the provision on voidable marriages could suggest that lack of registration simplifies or lowers the threshold for divorce, potentially making it more accessible or “cheaper”, given that the grounds for dissolving an unregistered marriage are less stringent, or that the legal hurdles typically associated with divorce have been eased.

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